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Makow - At 76, My Biggest Regret is Loving Women

Friday, August 28, 2026 17:27
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dreamgirl.jpg(I had just seen the movie, “The Gingerbread Man.” The girl in my dream looked like actress Embeth Davidtz left.)

You may have noticed that Western society is obsessed with sex. 

Sex and the chimera “love” are the main reason Western society is collapsing. 

My biggest regret in life is loving women: seeking validation from another person.

 
Romantic love is an ersatz religion to teach us to seek ourselves in another person instead of in Self-realization.   
Our souls contain the blueprint for our personal and collective development.

Movies taught us that sex is a “mystical experience,” the best life offers. 
“Sexual intercourse is a sacrament.  Orgasm is union with the universe.”  


We come from Heaven “trailing clouds of glory.” Our souls seek reunion with God. The Moral Order. Perfection. 
The tendency to idealize other people is a mistaken quest for the God within.

This mistake (“transference”) often leads to disaster.

The spark of Divinity in our soul is the principle of our self-development. We were made in the image of God.
God is speaking to us all of the time.

Women represent the force of nature. They are always trying to seduce men and utilize them for their reproductive purpose.
They seek to control men but as soon as they succeed, they lose interest. Women want to be lovingly dominated by a man.

Heterosexuality is based on the exchange of female power for male power expressed as love. When women sacrifice power for love, 
they become more feminine. When men do it, women lose interest in them. 

“Dumping My Dream Girl”
Updated from Feb 8, 2011 & April 9, 2026
by Henry Makow PhD 

I am proud of a dream I recently had.

I was young again and single. My beautiful girlfriend and I were shopping. I suggested we go back to my apartment. I was feeling loving and wanted to hang out and cuddle. Just be happy together. Sex wasn’t an issue.

Shortly after arriving, she says she has to leave.

Thwarted in love. Again.

In the dream, I press her for an explanation. She doesn’t have one.

She doesn’t want to be with me. I grant her wish.


I tell her I’m not interested in games. We’re finished.

The End.  Don’t come back.

I wake up pleased by my subconscious bravado.

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You see, when I was young, I endured all kinds of misery from my infatuations, patiently overcoming each obstacle. I was the poster child for “needy.”

In one instance, a woman who looked like Embeth (above) said she found me “repulsive.”  If ever there was a cue to tell a woman to f**k off and get out, this was it. Women respect rejection because it confirms their low opinion of themselves.

Instead, I ignored the comment and patiently persevered. We ended up living together for almost five years. I could fill another book  (in addition to “A Long Way to Go for a Date”) with what I endured. Obviously, I was immature and largely responsible for my fate.

I’m 76 now and no longer a player. I’ve been happily married for 25 years. I only wish I had awakened from this dream sooner.

BETRAYAL

Men have been programmed to believe that sex and “love” are the key to happiness. We need a woman’s love to develop as men. We need to sexually satisfy a woman to prove our masculinity.

We are programmed to seek feminine approval when our own approval is all that matters. 

We are programmed to idealize flawed and often stupid women instead of real ideals: Truth, Justice, Love, Freedom, Beauty and Goodness. (God is Perfection)

This is not women’s fault. They don’t want to be idealized. They don’t respect men who do it. But most can’t resist.

Most women are mundane by nature. They are part of nature. They menstruate.  They designed to be facilitators — wives and mothers — part of the boring but essential routine of daily life. They are mostly interested in material security. Their moral sense often is limited. Of course, women with special talent should pursue it. 

Western society is a satanic (((Cabalist))) sex cult. Women have become sexual commodities. (((Communism))) has always viewed women as common sexual utilities like electricity and water. If feminism were really pro-women, it would have promoted marriage and condemned promiscuity. Most women seek the life-long loyalty and love of a good man, their husband.  Sexual intercourse is an act of male-female possession. It is the the most intimate connection between two people. Hooking up is degrading and dehumanizing, a clear example of our satanic possession.

Anyway, I have satisfied a few women countless times and I have been satisfied as well. I’ve matured in the prescribed way. I discovered the lie by living it.

But I wish I had found a shortcut and downgraded the role of women and sex to its secondary importance.

quote-sex-is-the-biggest-nothing-of-all-time-andy-warhol-66-69-37.jpg(Sex used to be “making love.” It expressed feelings and created a bond.)


I wish I hadn’t loved them. Looking back, none were worth it.  I have wasted half my life. 

The satanist media has given young women a delusional sense of entitlement. Our mental programmers present them as demi-gods.

Just like prostitutes, many young women are no longer attractive to men. Men find modesty, innocence, style, intelligence, and femininity attractive.

Moreover, I sense that fewer and fewer women are even capable of loving a man. Their hearts have been poisoned by satanist social engineering. (Of course, men share the blame by treating women as sexual urinals.)

The mystification of beautiful women, like everything else, is the result of removing God from our lives. As Oscar Wilde said, “women are sphinxes without secrets.”

Women are intended to be helpmates, not soul mates.


Women by nature are facilitators. They need a man to give them a task and love them for fulfilling it. They want a man to give them a purpose. They don’t want to be his purpose.

If you found a “soul mate,” I salute you. But our only soul mate is God.

The nuclear family is the foundation of civilization. That’s why the Masonic Jewish (Satanic) central bankers are destroying it.

CONCLUSION

Am I bitter?  Yes. I am bitter for all the ways my culture has lied to me. Here, I blame Illuminist brainwashing that elevates sexual “relationships” to the negation of everything else. And I blame myself for falling for this garbage.   

The average man spends 75% of his energy on it. It’s a great motivator for many men. And yes, I realize it’s hormonal.


 But we cannot let this biological and social programming ruin our lives. Many men are ruined by divorce.  Many women are gold diggers.
 
Perhaps the real takeaway is this: Don’t look for someone to believe in you.

People respect people who believe in themselves.

 If I had had more self-respect, perhaps I would have awakened from this sleep much earlier.
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Anthony Migchels- Men Take Your Mind off Sex
First Comment by Alan:
 Your latest expose on the above-subject completely nails it. I share your insights on the matter, for they are so, so true. The point of the time, effort, energy & money I have personally spent on the individual pursuit of happiness through relations with the opposite sex is well, unfathomable in retrospect.
 Needless to say Henry, another great article for articulating what I, unwilling to admit, are experiences I did not want to contemplate. Every normal male, as you stated, at the end of the day needs approval from themselves. Period. 

JH writes 
Henry, this is just great, great thinking and writing.  I had to write and say so.

I wish every male, young and old, could read it 100 times.

It takes that much and more — the “programming” has been so protracted and severe……who among us has escaped it?


Source: https://henrymakow.com/dumping_my_dream_girl.html


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  • F16Hoser

    Three types of sex: 1. Lust 2. Love 3. Making babies.
    i can relate to all three. :wink:

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