Why Is Love so Hard to Find in the Modern World? - Matthew Hussey (Video)

In this 1 April 2024 video from Modern Wisdom, host Chris Williamson sits down with Matthew Hussey, the world’s #1 dating coach, a YouTuber, public speaker and an author.

Navigating modern love can feel like solving an impossible puzzle, but in truth, there are specific skills and tips which can elevate your romantic life. Matthew has spent 15 years coaching millions of men and women through their relationship struggles, and today we get his best insights.

Expect to learn if dating coaches are actually any easier to date, whether love should feel easy or if we need to become stronger, how you can realise the behaviours that are making you miserable, why being single is so hard for many people, the biggest problem with avoiders, how to get better at having a hard conversation and more.

https://youtu.be/cWvaxLc-sx4

Contents

00:00 Are Dating Coaches Hard to Date?
06:13 How We Use Dating to Make Us Feel Better
10:21 Flipping Between Comforting & Inspiring Relationships 
20:03 How We Condition Ourselves to Feel Love & Peace
30:01 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome Through Working Hard
36:23 Why the Internet Isn’t Talking About Love Anymore
48:28 Being Comfortable With Healthy Love
52:28 Feeling Guilty About Having Needs
1:01:37 How to Become Better at Hard Conversations
1:08:35 The Downsides of Being a Fixer
1:18:18 How to Communicate When You’re in the Wrong
1:28:07 Why Men Bottle Up Their Trauma
1:48:50 Working Hard to Rewire Your Thinking
1:55:34 Where to Find Matthew