NY Mag: Guide To Polyamory

I’ve always had a lot of White Nationalist readers who are either confused by or critical of my support for Southern Nationalism and Christian Nationalism. While I agree that race is important and that race matters, I have always believed it isn’t the only thing that matters. Even in a homogeneous White ethnostate, our values and culture would still be of supreme importance.

See, for example, the latest issue of New York Magazine which immediately brings to mind the predictions of 19th century critics of Northern liberalism like George Fitzhugh and Robert Lewis Dabney. The slippery slope is the history of liberalism in which one sick fad triumphs only to be succeeded by some new fad which triumphs and is succeeded in turn by another degenerate fad in an endless race to the bottom.

New York Magazine:

“If you live in New York, it’s very possible you’ve recently found yourself chatting with a co-worker, or listening to the table next to you at a restaurant, and heard some variation of “They just opened up, and they’re so much happier.” Or “My partner’s partner truly sucks.” Ethical non-monogamy isn’t new (The Ethical Slut, the polyamorous bible, came out in 1997), and it isn’t exactly mainstream, but it isn’t so fringe either (or reserved for those who live in the Bay Area). A curious person might be tempted to download Feeld or let their partner know over salmon they’re ready to let in a third. But though people don’t talk about it in hushed tones anymore — Riverdale just ended with Archie, Betty, Jughead, and Veronica in a quad, after all — it isn’t such a simple thing to do well. There are a million things that can go awry, from the small and awkward (oversharing about a date) to the enormous and life-imploding (ending an otherwise fine relationship). The poly-curious among you likely have questions about the day-to-day operations — how do you tell your kids about it? Where do you find people to date? What if your partner gets way more matches than you do? What if their new partner is way hotter than you? To that end, we’ve created an exceedingly in-depth guide. …

Open Relationship: In a strictly technical sense, this is when you and your partner can have sexual, but not romantic, relationships with other people.

Swinging: A couple who have sex or dates with other people as a duo.

Hierarchical polyamory: When you and your partner can have relationships — romantic or sexual — with other people but have agreed to remain each other’s primary partner. You might pursue these relationships as a couple or separately.

Nonhierarchical polyamory: There are no primary partners in this scenario — everyone is on an equal footing.

Solo-poly: A single person pursuing multiple intimate or sexual relationships while trying to avoid riding the Relationship Escalator. This means you’re not particularly interested in, say, sharing a home or bank account with any one person. …”

Since I started this blog, we have seen the triumph of gay marriage (2015) which was immediately followed by the mainstreaming of “trans” (2017 to 2023). After a few years, “trans” is becoming old hat now. The PRIDE flag has been redesigned. It is time to start pushing for polyamory in 2024.

George Fitzhugh was right!