Condolences: Remembering My Great Friend, Mr. Kingsley Aphiri Makata

In times of grief, words often fail to capture the depth of our sorrow. Today, I find myself in such a moment as I reflect on the life and legacy of my friend, Mr. Kingsley Aphiri Makata, who has left this world far too soon.

Mr. Makata was not just a friend; he was a beacon of knowledge, compassion, and creativity. A dedicated teacher by profession, he had an innate ability to ignite a passion for learning in his students. His contributions extended beyond the classroom, as he was also a remarkable writer who shared profound insights into the cultures and histories of Malawi, Zimbabwe, and South Africa. He wrote extensively on contemporary political and economic issues. His words resonated with many, serving not only as educational resources but also as bridges connecting the rich narratives of our shared heritage.

Though originally from Malawi, Mr. Makata made South Africa his home, where he built a loving family with his South African wife. His multicultural experiences enriched his perspective, allowing him to navigate through the complexities of our societies with grace and understanding. Mr. Makata passed on aged 65 and was laid to rest at Soweto Cemetery.

As I navigate through the painful reality of his absence, I find myself grappling with the emotions that accompany such a sudden loss. Communication with Mr. Makata had been a weekly ritual for us—a shared digital space where we exchanged thoughts, ideas, and life updates. When the messages stopped, it was an unsettling silence that embedded itself into my routine. The realization that something was wrong weighed heavily on my heart. I attempted to reach out, calling and sending messages via WhatsApp, but his phone remained off. The confusion only deepened as I recalled the many people we helped together, yet the memory of his home in Soweto eluded me.

It wasn’t until I took the step to reach out to his friends on Facebook, those who shared his surname, that the heartbreaking truth emerged. Mr. Makata passed on in June 2024, due to complications related to stomach issues. The news hit me with a profound sense of loss that words can hardly convey. I was left feeling a deep sorrow for the man who was full of compassion and humanity—a true friend who no longer walked this earth.

In reflecting on his life, I recognize that our existence in this world is fleeting. We are but travelers, journeying through moments that, though vibrant and meaningful, are ultimately temporary. Mr. Makata epitomized this transience, reminding us all of the importance of connection, understanding, and the sharing of knowledge.

As I conclude this tribute, I can only express my heartfelt condolences not only for myself but also for those who knew and loved him. The void left by his passing is a reminder of the gifts he shared and the legacy he leaves behind. Rest in peace, Mr. Kingsley Aphiri Makata. You will be remembered, your lessons cherished, and your spirit celebrated.

By Collen Makumbirofa
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