Writers and Imposter Syndrome
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Many authors have a problem with Imposter Syndrome, that gnawing, persistent inability to believe your success is deserved.
This condition isn’t limited to newly-minted authors. Many longtime authors can have that awful feeling that makes you anxious all the time and scared that you’ll be revealed as a fraud.
What a terrible way to live your life. This seems to be a side effect of feeling you have to be perfect, write the perfect book, live in a perfect home, have perfect children, etc.
It’s exhausting and emotionally damaging to you and those close to you. If the person I’ve described is you, chances are you’re also a procrastinator, afraid of tackling something new for fear you can’t do it perfectly. Afraid to publish the book you’ve written for fear it isn’t good enough even though you’ve had it edited and proofed.
If you’ve published books and get bad reviews, you tell yourself, “They’re right. I can’t write. I’m a fraud.” along with a whole bunch of self-defeating, negative crap.
NEED RESCUING?
Yes, there are professionals who deal with those who suffer from Imposter Syndrome with a plethora of solutions as expensive and complicated as psychotherapy, group therapy, and cognitive therapy.
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If you’ve read me for very long, you know I’m a proponent of self-help books, keeping a journal, working on your self-talk, and trying new things even though they may scare you to death.
Practice talking about your book.
Work on a pitch of 2-3 sentences so when someone asks what’s your book about, you can tell them intelligently instead of babbling for several minutes with “uh…like…uh” muttered far too often.
When someone at a party asks, “What do you do?” Know exactly how to describe what you do. Say it confidently and be proud of it.
Joan Reeves aka SlingWords: The Word Slinging Adventures of Joan Reeves
Source: https://slingwords.blogspot.com/2024/01/writers-and-imposter-syndrome.html
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